“Ew”, “Gross”, “Nasty”…
I get comments allllll the time… “Ew”, “Gross”, “Nasty”…. etc etc.
& it happened again today…
I WANT TO MAKE AN IMPORTANT POINT HERE!
When I was 65 lbs heavier, I always thought that if I lost weight: people would accept me, they would be nicer to me, they would “like” me, they would think I’m prettier, they would stop teasing me…
& I know many of you are thinking the same thing.
But I have truly found that that’s NOT TRUE.
It’s WORSE now that I’ve lost the weight & got fit!
(Ironic right? Lol)
THIS IS WHY YOU HAVE TO DO IT FOR YOU & NO ONE ELSE!!!!
Because people will ALWAYS be mean.
They will ALWAYS have something to say is Wrong with you!!
But I’m here to tell you that God made you PERFECT.
Every single part of you.
You have to LOVE YOURSELF, & not rely on the acceptance of others…
Because you will NEVER GET IT.
You have to get your Health right because YOU want it for yourself, not because you think
“People will accept me or like me more if I lose weight”
Because they won’t.
Only listen to what God says about you –
That you were “Fearfully & Wonderfully Made”!
It used to bother me & hurt me when people said these things because I thought…
“I did all of this work to lose weight & be fit & be accepted… but people still don’t like me”…
BUT I LET GO OF WORRYING ABOUT WHAT OTHERS THINK ABOUT ME….
Because Hurting People HURT PEOPLE…
& that has NOTHING to do with me and who I am.
Now when I see these comments I just laugh honestly…
(because those people are just Miserable. Lol)
I hope that you learn to do the same…
Be CONFIDENT in who you are & the Goals you are chasing NO MATTER what other people say to you.
BUT YOU… YOU ARE AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!!
I love you Pretty Girl
With LOVE always,
Kaelin Tuell Poulin