Self-Sabotage.  We’ve all done it.  Actually, some of us sabotage ourselves everyday!  Ever wondered if there was a way to get rid of it?  Turns out there’s actually 5 ways!

  • Vision

You need to envision yourself as if you already love yourself.  I know this might feel weird at first, but it works! It’s very simple.  All you need to get started is to find a quiet space, close your eyes, and picture a life where you love yourself.    

  • Positive Goals

You need to learn how to invest time and energy in yourself.  You need to have a desire to improve. Writing positive goals will help you feel like you are working towards improving yourself and your life.   

  • Affirmations

“I am beautiful” “I care about my body” “I love my life”.  Write them somewhere visible so you see them everyday. I used to write them on my mirror and read them when I was getting ready.

  • Nourishing your body

You need to take care of your body.  Self-love is also about self-respect, and allowing your body to have the healthy food it needs to operate, and the sleep it deserves.

  • Repetition & Consistency

Self love does not appear overnight.  If you want to learn to love yourself for good, you need to repeat step 1-4 EVERYDAY.  You need to envision self-love everyday, you need to write daily & weekly goals that are positive, you need to repeat your affirmation, and you need to fuel your body with healthy food and rest.


These 5 tips will help you get started.  But, I also made a workbook to help you kickstart your mind and your metabolism!  If you are interested in reaching your optimal self, check out my FREE LadyBoss Kickstart


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With LOVE always,